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I Bee-Lieve

Why is she always trying to get my attention? I do

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    JDM848
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    Does it sound normal for a girl who leaves a guy she had been involved with for close to 2 years, move away across the country for grad school and, not wanting a L-D relationship. She gets to her school, meets someone else in her program, tries to stay in touch with the guy back home and then when she tells him about the new guy, he isn’t happy and basically stops communicating with her. She tried every so often to get in contact with him thorugh FB or texts, even sending a pic of her cat to get his attentnion, with little luck. After a couple of months, her and the new guy breakup, get back together a few weeks to a month later and then it ends again after 2-3 months again. After that she tries even harder to get in touch with the guy back home, he responds, but not with much haste or shows very little interest. She’s always liking and commenting on his FB posts, but he never does anything on her wall. She was on a few dating sites from the spring up until recently, now she is back with the guy at her school again. Weird thing is, it seems like she likes to put up a profile pic of the two of them if they start dating again. This time she put up a pic that she had used last JAnuary, which seemed strange. She got off the dating sites as well. Does this sound normal? Does she miss the guy back home? Why get back together with the guy at school for what looks like a third time? Is there actually truly something there that couldn’t keep them apart? How can you really tell if why she did these things is if she still had feelings for you or just was lonely and wanted attention? I don’t know her to be very forward about stuff and considering how sort of cut her off last year, I can see her not being very direct. Idk though! If you were trying to move on, would you be active on their profile so much?

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    Ask April Masini
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    You’ve written a lot about her, but the question I have is, why are you trying to analyze her? If she’s moved across the country and doesn’t want a long distance relationship, then why spend so much time thinking about her? It would be easier if you’d move on and find someone else to date who is available. 😉

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