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[b]ok, i met this girl online in a dating website. We hit upon well, that very day i got her phone number and next morning she called me. We chatted for around 13 days and then we started to realise we are more than online close friends. I am 21, and she is 20 and on 14th day she told those 3 magic words to me, and i said back. We called and said to each other.
The confusion i am having is she is living with her family and is a student. She says she cant be with me for 5 years,coz i understand since she is an Indian. She says i cant meet u because she may not control herself once she sees me. We talked about everything, our honeymoon, future plans and even daughters name. But i dont understand why she doesnt want to meet me. She says she will b with me after 3 years.But i cannot wait. I love her. I have seen her photo and i think she was honest with me about 90% of things she told me. Am i acting out needy? I really wanna meet her. Why she is saying that
I would appreciate your help
Thank You in advance[/b]

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The internet is a great tool for dating, but it’s not a way to conduct [i]an entire relationship[/i]. It’s very unusual for you two to exchange “I love you’s,” on the phone — [b]never having met[/b]. And it’s inappropriate to discuss marriage and children when you’ve never even had a date. 😯 That she refuses to meet you for five years or three years — that should be the last straw. This isn’t someone who is available for a relationship.

Don’t be confused — she couldn’t be clearer with you. She isn’t going to date you. Move on and find someone who is!

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