I got a chance to talk to him again and told him how his rude comments made me feel, he said he realizes now what he has done and that he can be a jerk some times and that he would work on that, so far he hasn’t said those things, he told me what really bothered him was the fact that I can be to needy and act afraid all the time that he is going to leave and asked me why can’t we just be in a relationship with out trying to create things that are not there and trust in our relationship. He is right i am afraid that he is going to leave because of my past relationship and when he was saying those things to me it triggered those memories of how things were in my last relationship so of course I am going to feel that way but he says that if he was going to leave I would know it and that he loves me so should I just trust in that and not let my insecurities get the best of me and see how things go first before i just up and leave him?
