You are correct! We moved in together when we were 19 and 20. When we moved in with one another we had (and still have) intentions of eventually getting married. I don’t feel that he doesn’t want to marry me, I just feel like his friends come before I do, and if that’s the case… is it ever going to really change, because all of his friends are slowly settling down and I feel that he doesn’t want to.
As far as him never wanting to take me out on “date nights”, I feel as if he is frustrated because he is the breadwinner. He works for a family company, and I am in the last semester of school and working 2 jobs to try and keep my head above water. When I do suggest that just him and I go out together he makes it seem like if he isn’t going to be going out with his friends as well, then he’d rather just say home and not spend the money. This was never an issue in the past because I made more money, and wasn’t in school full time. This past year has financially been a struggle for us because I am going to school full time and working as much as possible. This never had been an issue before is because in the past I wanted to go out and party all the time as well, and now I just don’t find is as much fun, and I want more time with him. Am I being too needy? Or is he just not wanting to grow up?
