[Socrates]

I hate to break it to you, but she sounds like she is just using you for entertainment. You have to think of it from her perspective, she sounds like she has some drama going on and she has got two kids and work. She has got a full plate, so you are nice distraction. When dating girls, you should never get too invested in them until it is obvious you are a couple. If this girl is your only option right now, get other options.

[Socrates]

This is my first post on this forum, so please excuse any mistakes I make.
If he is 24, that is still really young for a guy to “settle down”. Most men don’t want to stop going out until they feel old. If you live in a big city, it is even harder for guys to settle down. If you really want to get married soon, or at lease engaged, I would leave. I had a friend of mine who dated a girl for 13 years from the time they were 15 and 16 until they got married at age 28 and 29. So, take it for what it is, if you think he is the one and he will settle down and change with you, then great, but if not….

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