[Lisa73]

So why did he read the emails I sent if he didn’t want to talk to me? Seems that he wouldn’t if he wasn’t feeling something.

[Lisa73]

[quote=”MysteryWoman”]He knows what he wants! He wants a restraining order put on you.[/quote]

Why would you say something like that?

[Lisa73]

[quote=”April Masini”]Here are a few tips to help you find Mr. Right (this guy is not your Mr. RIght):

1. Don’t call and text a guy first, or, when he doesn’t call or text you back. (You’re acting desperate and no one is going to find desperation attractive. 🙁 )

2. Let HIM do the chasing. [b]MysteryWoman[/b] said he needs a restraining order against you because it’s pretty apparent that you’re spending WAY too much time chasing a guy who isn’t showing much interest, if any. When he called the police to get you to leave his house, you should have ended the relationship. The problem was that you really didn’t see that what you were doing was very wrong. If someone asks you to leave, leave. Again, this is an understatement, but what you were doing wasn’t making you attractive to him. It was doing the opposite. 😕

3. If a guy doesn’t ask you out on a date, move on. Don’t waste your time trying to convince yourself he doesn’t know what he wants. Instead, be clear: he DOES know that he doesn’t want to date you. If he did, he’d call and invite you to dinner.

I’m sorry that this is so hard for you. You’re missing a lot of social cues that most people already understand. I think you should read Think & Date Like A Man, a book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right. It’s going to help you a lot. You can buy it on the websites for Barnes & Noble, Amazon or right here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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I think you’re missing the point. He got upset over a throw pillow. Hardly normal behavior. I knew something didn’t seem right with him, but couldn’t figure it all out. Almost like he was depressed.

You make it sound like I’m the only one in the wrong here. I’m not saying I was right, but I don’t think he was any more in the right in anything he did than me.

So why did he come over to my place 2 weeks later and say that he didn’t know what he wants and wants to talk later?

I feel like you’re missing a lot of social cues. I was with this guy for 8 months and you don’t suddenly blow up over a throw pillow. I can accept the fact that maybe he doesn’t want to date me, but if that’s the case then why hasn’t he started dating someone else, or at least looking?

[Lisa73]

[quote=”MysteryWoman”]He knows what he wants! He wants a restraining order put on you.[/quote]
Why would you say something like that?

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