I understand this line to be quite generic, however, -put ur self in his shoes.- he was your best man, you have two kids with her, you’ve been working on a marriage for 13 years in a world were divorce is about 55%, and for the rest of your life, or however long their relationship lasts. you are gonna remember all the good times you had with your wife, and imagine the best man instead of you. Its like you’ve done the hard work and another man harvests the fruits of ur labor.
I think you know the answer to this. I believe you know waht to do. Sometimes its the [i]will[/i] to do waht we must thats amiss. Remember you aren’t living with her, therefore you are only experiencing the good. You have to experience the good the bad and the ugly, not as 17 year old friendship, but as a marriage. That’s different.
