[iamunderrated]

Well to update she had reached out to me and we made plans for a date. Then a few days later she tells me she spent the previous night in the hospital. Somebody had roofied her at a Kentucky Derby party. She was really upset as she had only a month or so again been molested in her sleep by her roommate.

I wrote her a really nice poem and left it for her to find and read. I put a lot into it…it was personal, it was sweet, it was funny at times…I was proud of it. She told me it left her speechless. She said it was perfect and made her cry. She even showed her mom. She told me it was the most romantic thing anyone had ever done for her.

I showed my support in tough times for her but I’m not making it about going on dates and commitment to me. I’m just being there. I hope when she’s ready to start dating again that it’s me.

[iamunderrated]

Well doesn’t look good. I let 3 days go with no contact then today briefly apologized for “overwhelming” her and explained why. I said that because she opened up saying she was falling for me and knowing she was going through tough personal stuff, I tried too hard to show my interest in her was genuine. She only responded with “I understand.”

I think at this point all I can do is see if she reaches out to me on her own at some point. Meanwhile probably need to accept this was a brief love affair that won’t go anywhere. Bummer.

[iamunderrated]

Thanks for the reply April. I know you can’t see the future or speak for a girl, but you are an expert who sees scenarios like this all the time. Do you see a high chance of the “fix” succeeding or likely a lost cause?

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