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[quote=”prettylady”]So me an my boyfriend have been togeather for 4 yrs. It was love at first sight. But this last yr we had money problems and legal issues a raise witch was really stressful and we were fighting a lot so we decided that maybe we needed to take a break, so he went an stayed with his parents an I stayed at are apartment cause I have to work. Long story shortened he ends up meeting some girl and he let her stay at his parents with him for a few days until he seen me at work and we talked and decided we wanted to get back together. He moves back in with me everything was going great until the crazy girl that he was with messages him saying she pregnant….. His parents told him he has to move back home and they move this girl in and block me from being able to have any contact with him…. I am heart broken without him Any ideas on how I might be able to get hold of him ??? Please help me[/quote]

Hello prettylady, sorry to hear that! It’s indeed a sad thing happened with you. I was wondering have you tried calling him or speak with him after the incident. Do you think your BF loves you a lot like the way you do?

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If you really like that guy you’re meeting with, you should ask him to be your BF. No shame in it. Also take a note that how often he communicates with you! This is important to measure whether he really care for your or his job. After that you can ask to be your BF!!

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[quote=”Drealempress”]Hi
I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend about a month ago. He broke up with me because he said he is not ready for a commitment. While we were dating, his elder sister approved of the relationship and so she was really nice to me. Bought stuff for me and sent them to me through my mum. However, my ex boyfriend attributed the break up to the fact that his family disapproves of our relationship because we always fight a lot which his family got to know about. I’m currently on a vacation in the same city where his sister lives and I was thinking of going to visit her. I do not intend to talk about the break up with her but I want to visit her because she was nice to me. Please do you think it is a good idea to visit my ex boyfriend’s sister?
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If you’re really feeling for it then you should go. Do the things always that gives you happiness, pleasure. If you think you can manage your ex boyfriend sister after broke up, then you should give it a try.

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[quote=”April Masini”]You have to decide what you want and then do it. 😉 You got into the break up because you weren’t clear about boundaries with your ex, and you’re floundering in it because you’re not being clear with your new ex. 😕 If you want to date her, then make that the only way you’ll see her. If you don’t, you’re going to stay in this friend zone which isn’t a great place for either one of you to be. And ironically, she can’t really miss you if you’re not gone — so making a stand and moving on is a way to see how important you are to her.

People stay in the friend zone because they think they can leverage it into romance, or because they’re too frightened to let go, so having this type of contact makes them feel safe. But then they write me with the same types of questions you have.

You do have a chance with your ex, but you won’t know what kind of a chance unless you take it — which means making the relationship you have with her a non-friend zone relationship and tell her what you want and when — which is to date her, and be back in a relationship because you’ve made it very clear that you’re not going to see your ex again — now. This is going to be a big shift for you, but I think it’s a healthy one that will serve you.

She may say no and stay with her current boyfriend, and while that’s disappointing and what you’re hedging against by staying in the friend zone, at least you’ll know and be able to move on. Or, she may see a change in your behavior that is important to her, and want to get back together with you and to dump her current boyfriend. I think the risk is worth taking because either way, you’re better off than you are now. 🙂

Let me know what you think and if you have any more questions.[/quote]

Great advice! As expected, I like it.

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[quote=”Katienolan93″]I recently had a threesome with a couple. It was lots of fun, I felt so sexy and they were great. The problem is, I have a boyfriend. And he doesn’t know about this. I felt like I had a better time (with sex) with the couple than with my boyfriend. I don’t know if I should fill him in on my feelings about our sex without telling him about the threesome, continue and not tell him, or just stop doing the threesome all together. I’m. So. Conflicted.[/quote]

You’ve indeed made a very complicated situation. Since you’re have a boyfriend, why on earth you’ve made sex with the couple. Since you mentioned you’ve great sex time with the couple rather then your boyfriend.

So I believe so should consider telling your boyfriend the truth. And also describe you’re not satisfied doing sex with him.

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[quote=”Kunal”]i want to ask you how can i make friends on social networking sites whom i dont know but i want to make friendship with them &i cant send directly friend request.please advice me.[/quote]

Hello Kunal,

Making friendship is social media site is very easy. All you need is keep your engagement rate up to date every time when your existing friends sharing something. It’s important to keep your current friendship condition growing with your already available social media friends. Now to get attention of a new user, you need to first like his/her sharing, make positive comments and get into the attention. After that when you’ll send friend request, you’ll get accepted.

Nowadays most social media sites stopped the process of sending random friend request, even those people who you don’t know at all. So to improve website security and authority administrators have come up with such decision.

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[quote=”April Masini”]Interesting advice! 😀[/quote]

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You’re very serious about that boy. That’s good but you should also need to learn flirting. It’s important to say sweet things to your boyfriend, so that he become excited to talk with you most time. All time saying serious talking is not works anymore, you should try to add fun behavior in your writing tone. And don’t pretend to be a tough to girl to get, just be the perfect girl to take correct decision at the right time.

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In this situation, do take close decision. If you really love that girl, be nice to her and wait. Time heals everything, and if you prove worthy to that girl your relationship will improve by the time progresses ahead. At this moment concentrate on you or whatever you’re doing like jobs, playing, traveling. Things will get better.

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[quote=”April Masini”]Thank you! 🙂[/quote]

You’re most welcome.

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Just like the way April answers all of the complicated questions that has been publishing in this post. Enjoyed reading this post each and every reply. Life is very complicated and the answers I read from here will surely inspire me to make this easier out of those complicated thinking.

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[quote=”Roxy2016″]Hi I talked to you a few days ago and I am so messed up. I went with my heart me and my husband split up. I am now with the other guy I am inlove with him he is so good to me and my boy. But all I can think about is my husband of how the way things were, my life with him what do I do I need help.
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Hello Roxy, don’t worry you’ll be alright. Once I was suffered from a similar situation. I got split up with my husband at 2012 and since then living up with my daughter. After two years 2014 we meet up with a guy in a shopping mall. From there we dated, traveled various places together and got married. Since meeting with my new love I’m feeling very relaxed. As time passing by I’m completely forgetting my previous life story.

So all I want to point out, things will recover as time passes ahead, just relax.

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[quote=”mtoner26″]I’m in 10th grade and the girl I really like is in 11th.She is incredibly gorgeous btw. My friends don’t think she’s that hot but I do!! We went on a date before during the summer at a coffee shop but she brought her sister along due to plans afterwards. I was texting her on Snapchat but then when I asked for a screenshot of something she gave me her number. I always start the conversations. Also, I asked her if she wants to go bowling since she’d never been. She said “That’d be dope!!” but she is SUPER ****ing busy all week (clubs and programs). She also said she wouldn’t mind going to the gym with me. How to know if she’s interested considering all these things???Is she playing with my emotions or playing hard to get or just being nice?? Thanks!![/quote]

Considering the situations you mentioned in the post, I would say she is playing with you. She is not interested in you, if so she already would have responded to your queries. After all there is nothing more important a loving person interest.

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Having sex with coworker, I don’t think your relationship is not in friendship stage anymore. Your coworker is totally falling in love with you.

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Hello Pretty, the problem you’re facing is almost similar to me. The only difference is my husband is supporting me all time, since his parents dumped us from their house. We are now living separately and things are good now. For you I’m feeling sorry, because this type of situation is very sad. And it hurts a lot. Don’t worry, be strong, and you tried your best.

If you husband is ignoring you, don’t lose hope. Get rid of him, find a job because busy, it’ll help you become stable in life. One day he’ll return to you, if your husband truly loves you.

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