Thank you for your reply.
I’ll try to do the one in the clothing store, even though there are no birthdays upcoming 😆 , that seems pretty easy. Are they any techniques like this one but meeting girls in the gym?.
I tell you how the scenario is going to be like: I spot the girl I’d like to meet, ask her for help, she will help me, I tell her that I know nothing about it and I trust her to choose the best (should I ask her to put it on? I mean to see how it is, so, I can compliment her, to admire that it fits her, she looks good… or I took it too far so it starts to sound a bit creepy? 😯 ), I’ll thank her, pay for it and leave the store without the real “product” that I came for – her phone number.
So after knowing the outcoming I got no use to try – it’s another one to the my failure list…
You’re right about the “what if..”, I been living with this already 3 years, and there is like someone inside me that always told (and telling) me that if I do/ask this or other thing it’ll be a failure, I’ll make fun of me and so on.. what ceased me hesitating and stepping back.
I tried to get in touch with her, on July, she was abroad, and I found out when she suppose to back, so a day before I sent an email to her, just asking how was the trip, where she been, if she can send some pictures of breathtaking landscapes, and that I was planing visit USA but had to change my plans because of numeral reasons…
She didn’t write me back, so I took it as an informal “NO” – should I take it as an answer to my “what if..?”.
But let’s assume that she said “YES”, and she will date with me and all that… .
How in the world do I suppose to trust her afterward? I mean, she has a boy-friend, she will either cheat him with me or break up with him (and I don’t want it to), so, who can guaranty that she won’t do the same to me?. I guess that no one can.
Anyway one of the keys to overcome shyness is to act? To pretend?.
