[stephigirl]

Hello, I just saw this, as I rarely check the email address that I used to register, so I missed the notification.
Things are going wonderfully. My husband is out of the closet and so much happier. He keeps a boyfriend on the side, and it has made our marriage stronger. His boyfriend is very sweet (and very handsome, I might add), I adore him.
The new arrangement took some getting used to, but he loves me and I am his #1 priority always.

[stephigirl]

Thank you April. We had a long talk about this last night and Steve revealed to me that he still has a lot of hang-ups about his bisexuality. They mostly stem from his religious upbringing and the ultra-conservative bigoted “values” that are often ingrained in children who are brainwashed to believe that god somehow hates homosexuality.
His main fear is being “found out” by his family. He acknowledged this is an irrational fear because none of his family live within 1000 miles of us. And since most of our friends are open minded people, they would have no problem with his sexuality.
We plan on talking about this a lot more and he seemed relieved to finally discuss his fears and anxieties regarding his sexuality.
After that, I made him tell me all about his experience with Marc. It was his first time with a man and he loved it. I got so turned on hearing him tell me what happened. It turns out he and Marc had been secretly flirtatious for years and never acted on it.
I am not intimidated by the fact that Steve likes men too and wants sex with men. He really wants to find a “boyfriend” for us to share. And I wouldn’t mind him having sex with men without me. I am secure in knowing that he is attracted to me and wants no emotional relationship with a man.
Thank you for your help!

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