[ramo6977]

Sorry for the double post, but also, you are the first to advise me to keep more thoughts inside. But, it may be good. I believe I am one of the most honest and open people out there, generally. Perhaps a bit too much though, which I never really thought of.

[ramo6977]

Thank you very much for the response. It was more in depth than I expected and a different point of view than I expected. I guess I expected a traditional “see how it goes… if you can live with what she did, then move on. if not, then end the relationship.” I appreciate this response very much. It’s given me a different perspective.

I have a paid holiday coming up and am thinking about driving 9 hours to see her and spend some time together. At first, I felt hesitant, as if I was going out of my way to visit a girl who cheated on me.

Now, I think it may be a good idea. What do you think?

[ramo6977]

Thank you for the response. I understand what you’re saying, but she didn’t actually do this after I stated my fantasy. She had already done it and simply sent me the video she had made.

Over the summer, we had broken up and a month went by. She said that she was really angry with me one night in particular and that’s when this happened. She said that when they made the video she thought of the idea of me seeing it and immediately went back to her room. The real kicker to me though, is that we got back together and she told me that she would be more open about things. I asked if she did anything with anyone else while we were apart and she said no.

I feel like the last 4 months we’ve shared were a lie. This is the difficult part. It wouldn’t be as bad if she was honest and truly was coming clean and trying to start fresh when we got back together.

I feel deceived and cheated even though she didn’t “technically” cheat.

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