[aliasbk]

Just wondering if i could get your opinion on something new. Just a little confused.

So we have been getting along great for at a week and a half or so. She has started flirting with me and teasing me. Big, smiles, playful, all that jazz. Then today in the middle of a nice convo, she says “Do I still have stuff at your house?” She knows she does… Anyway, I said yes and she asked if she could come by after work and pick it up. What does this mean? Is she using it to come see me or is she trying to end it completely? I’m totally confused by this due to all the recent flirting.

Should I be, OK here is your stuff and let her leave or talk to her about it? I can’t take all the flirting and stuff if there is no chance, it just hurts too much. I’ve been in high spirits and happy the past week or so then just felt crushed again when I heard this

[aliasbk]

Thanks for the reply April.
I sent her flowers a couple of days after it happened that didn’t seem to go over well. It went from i need some time to deal to i cant see you right now when i sent them. It kinda scared me off from wanting to do anything else. I’m worried about calling her or asking her to sit down to talk. I don’t want it to make things worse by asking. At the moment i only get to see her at work and only get a few minutes here and there to talk with her 1:1. The last time i spoke to her prior to seeing her at work (were everything seemed normal) she said there was a chance but we may have to start over. Which im ok with. its something. I really want to sit with her and lay it all out but i get the feeling it may not be a good idea. As for work I just dont feel like i can act the way i used to even before we dated without seeming too needy or constantly trying to smooth things over, ya know, pushy. Thank you for the advice on figuring out how to deal with our anger and what does/doesn’t work, i think that will be really important moving forward. Hopefully i get that chance.

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